Wellness

Strength Training After Forty: What Changed

Three sessions a week, two years in. What has improved, what has not and what I would tell my younger self.

A woman in her forties lifting a barbell in a light, plain gym, concentrated expression, side view

I started lifting weights at forty-one, mostly out of irritation at not being able to open a jar. Two years on, I can open the jar. I can also carry both shopping bags in one go, take stairs two at a time and get out of a low chair without a noise.

What has changed:

  • Strength. The obvious one, and the most satisfying. Numbers go up, slowly, and so does confidence.
  • Posture. Standing taller without thinking about it.
  • Sleep. Deeper, and with fewer wake-ups.
  • Mood. Steadier. I am less reactive and more patient.

What has not: I am not dramatically leaner, and I do not look transformed. The benefits are mostly invisible, and they are all the better for it.

If you are thinking of starting, begin with a good coach for a few sessions, learn the basics and be patient. The first month is awkward. The third is addictive. After that it simply becomes part of the week.

Priya Nandakumar

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Priya Nandakumar

Beauty and wellness editor. Sceptical of miracle claims, devoted to a good moisturiser and a long walk.